How to Tell if a Girl Likes You
It’s easy for the untrained to be oblivious to the body language signals and other signs that girls give when they like you. But, learning how to tell if a girl likes you is a core component of your game that you absolutely need to have. Just remember that even the best at one point were just as oblivious as anyone else, and had to train themselves to recognize and respond to female attraction signals.
Learning how to initiate and respond to physical touch, being able to catch signs of flirting and attraction, and knowing how to respond to her moves at the right time are some of the most important aspects of learning how to tell if a girl likes you and how to build attraction. You don’t need to be an expert in body language at all to be able to recognize these signs, as they are as clear as day once you know what they are.
Be aware of her body language
Recognizing body language is one of the easiest ways to tell if a girl likes you. Strong eye contact is one of the most important signs that a girl is attracted to you. It’s not the only sign; girls often bite their lower lip or touch their lips when they are interested. If she looks relaxed, and sits close to you with an open posture (arms relaxed instead of crossed and shoulders facing toward you), it’s a sign that she feels comfortable in your presence. If you catch her staring at you while you’re not looking, and then turning away as soon as she sees your eyes move toward her, it’s a great sign that she’s into you.
Touch is one of the biggest signs of attraction
If she initiates touch with you in any way, it’s another one of the biggest signs that she’s attracted to you. It also suggests that you might be moving too slow and should have initiated touch already. There are lots of ways that she might initiate touch. She might grab your arm in excitement when talking about something, or hug you a lot more often than her friends. Keep in mind that a lot of girls are not comfortable initiating touch, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want you to touch them. Don’t be afraid to initiate touch yourself, but know the right time to initiate it.
If she initiates communication with you she’s probably very interested
Once you’ve established regular communication with a girl, be aware of how often she initiates contact with you. If she’s interested, she will often text you out of the blue or ask you questions about how your day is going. Also pay attention to how quickly she responds to your texts and phone calls. If she is responding faster than you, or just as fast, then she’s probably very interested. If she wasn’t interested, you wouldn’t be that high on her priority list.
Pay attention to small favors she does
When a girl likes you she will sometimes do small favors for you, like getting you a drink or a snack, or helping out with your housework. Some girls are generally helpful people and do this for a lot of their friends, so don’t read into this too much. But if she is showing some of the other signs mentioned above, the fact that she’s also happy to do small favors for you shows that wants your approval.
Don’t overanalyze anything and take action to see where it goes
It’s good to be able to know how to tell if a girl likes you, but don’t sit around and overanalyze a girl’s behavior. Once you get experience, you can quickly judge a girl’s interest after you initiate a conversation. If she isn’t interested, she will usually avoid eye contact or look around the room, and show various other signs of disinterest. Even if she’s not interested at the beginning it’s no problem; as long as you keep talking you always have an opportunity to build attraction.
If she isn’t interested in you, move on fast
There’s really no need to sit around and meditate on anything if you find out that a girl isn’t interested. Don’t ever take it personally when a girl shows disinterest, there could be a million reasons why, but it truly doesn’t matter. Just move onto the next opportunity.
And, no matter what, don’t be afraid to take initiative with your own signs of interest. A lot of the time you will have to be the one to take the initiative anyway, and once your game improves you’ll find that taking the initiative is one of the most exciting aspects of courtship.